Well, I can say, I miss them both, My mother is gone now, my father just celebrated his 80th birthday last July. How time flies. I remember when I was young and I had an attack of asthma in the middle of the night, my mother will bundle me in my blanket and my father will carry me running to the nearest clinic, because I can't breath, with my mother in tow. Oh, if I could bring back the old times....